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Fin-Dom (Financial Domination) has been around for some time although perhaps called something else!
I first saw a site back in 2012 and joined to have a look but it didn't really interest me then, and still doesn't today although it has become much more sinister and predetarory recently, spilling over into the mainstream and even appearing on chat apps such as Skype.
This is mainly due to 'straight' men signing up and taking advantage of the supposedly well-off gay community and their 'pink pound'. While some gay men may have money to spend like this, I would suggest many don't and don't wnt to take part but, from my experience, some of them can be VERY intimidating!
Of course, I'm not saying it should be stopped and i assume it is only carried out 'with consent' but i have seen large sums of money - 1000;'s of pounds -being paid for what seems like very little, if anything, in return.
Each to their own, I suppose..
i saw a great e-stim device in use recently which could be controlled remotely.
i had aplay with the person on the other end who was on webcam so i could see the results as I adjusted the intensity and rate of the two electrodes and it gave me an idea..
if i were to buy one, sat in a chair with my legs bound open exposing my cock and balls, the camera could be setup to focus on my cock & balls.
As it would be just too easy to opt-out if it got too much, i have an 'ice-lock' which is kept frozen in the freezer and, with a set of cuffs, i could secure my hands to the chair behind my back which would keep me 'trapped' until the ice melts and the lock releases.
Before this, i would have to publish the address of the controling site and then let someobody else control my arousal for at least a couple of hours (until the ice melts)
it would also stop me from releasing immediately if/when i should cum!
If anyone is interested in trying this, let me know:-)
The device can be bought here (i have no affiliation with the store whatsoever)